Divorce can change everything Suddenly you are learning to work with an attorney, completing daunting legal paperwork, splitting time with your children, experiencing social circle shifts, and having the tough conversations. Other changes sneak up on you as well, such as the way your house suddenly may feel unfamiliar, even a little hollow or empty. The silence of an empty home can hit differently. The furniture may feel like it belongs to someone else’s life, a past version of yourself who you don’t relate to anymore, or maybe never did.

Within our practice in North Dallas, Frisco, Plano, and the surrounding areas, our clients include successful professionals, loving parents, busy business owners, people who have built beautiful lives but now find themselves asking:
“Now that I’m starting fresh, how do I make this place feel like home again?”

Change can feel overwhelming, especially now. The answer isn’t always found in doing something big, It can start with small, meaningful changes that help you feel more grounded, more supported, and—bit by bit—more like you again.

Home Isn’t Just Where You Live — It’s Where You Replenish

You don’t need to toss everything out or hire a high-end designer from Knox Street to build the feeling of home (though if that brings you joy, absolutely go for it). This isn’t about just making over your space. It’s about ensuring that your home gives you the respite you need to rest and replenish, be intentional about breathing new life into the space and allowing it to grow with you as you transition into this new phase of your journey. Consider the following:

• Replacing the wedding photos with art you picked up on a quiet Saturday at the Dallas Farmers Market or at one of the many Arts festivals throughout the Metroplex
• Rearranging existing furniture so it feels fresh, open, full of new energy
• Lighting a candle every evening that smells like comfort, peace, and possibility
• Hanging curtains that you chose because you loved the pattern—not because they matched someone else’s vision
• Picking up some antiques from Frisco Mercantile for an eclectic look that’s all you
• Donating that chair you never liked so someone else who loves it can enjoy it

Sometimes, healing begins with something as simple as throwing away the throw pillows that never really felt like you. Allowing yourself the space to choose is empowering.

What Reflects This Version of You?

This is your fresh start—not just legally, but emotionally and physically.
You get to ask:
What do I like?
What feels good?
What makes me feel safe, strong, and even a little luxurious?

What brings me joy, makes me smile?

Maybe it’s soft textures and calming neutrals from Wisteria, or a bold statement piece from a favorite boutique in the Design District. Or maybe it’s a cozy reading nook with your favorite books, a comfy blanket, and a new sense of peace, allowing yourself the space and time to do what makes you happy. Or maybe it’s something even simpler — like sipping coffee from a new mug that feels good in your hands…

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For All You Parents: Make Space for You in Your Home

If you’re a mom or dad rebuilding after divorce, you’ve probably spent a lot of time putting your kids first. And that’s a beautiful thing. But don’t forget that they need you to feel whole, too. Show them it’s important to value yourself.

You deserve a corner of the house that belongs to just you, a sanctuary of sorts where you are able to decompress and process the new found changes in your life.
A space that doesn’t serve anyone or anything but your peace and restoration. This space might be filled with your latest hobby or project, ready to jump in and continue to work on it. Or a place that’s simple, calm and nurturing, such as a comfy chair, cozy blanket, near a sun-filled window. Or the garden, somewhere you can nurture green growing things and make your work beautiful or fill your plate with healthy food. Basically, a place that’s helping you feel hope for the future, and a reminder of your resilience and how far you’ve come.

Even if you’re living in Addison, Preston Hollow, or Frisco, your space doesn’t have to be picture-perfect, it just needs to make you feel whole. Makes you see the whole picture, full of possibility and growth. When your children see you caring for yourself, making a space that supports your well-being they learn that healing, self-respect, and renewal are part of life. And what a gift that is.

Reclaiming Your Space is Part of Reclaiming You

You’ve made it through a tough journey. You’ve done the brave thing. And now, you get to rebuild—not all at once, but one loving, empowered, intentional decision at a time.

We’ve seen so many of our clients here in Dallas and throughout North Texas find strength in the simple act of making their home, well, simply feel like home again. And we’re aware that it’s not really about the pillows, the paint, or the furniture. It’s about making room for the next version of your self—and for the you who’s been yearning to feel seen, centered, and strong. It’s about coming home to yourself.

At Hargrave Family Law, we understand that divorce isn’t just a legal process — it’s a life transition. And we’re here to support the whole of it. If you’re in the Dallas Metroplex and surrounding area and you’re ready to move forward with clarity and hope, we’re here to walk with you.

You don’t have to do this alone. Let’s help you build something beautiful.
Schedule your case evaluation today.