Thinking About Divorce in the New Year? What You Should Consider First, Advice From A Dallas Divorce Attorney

As the new year begins, many people take stock of their lives—and for some, that reflection leads to difficult questions about their marriage. In this Good Morning Texas interview, Erin Hunter sits down with Dallas divorce attorney Jennifer Hargrave, board-certified family law attorney and managing partner of Hargrave Family Law, to discuss how to know when divorce may be the right next step.
Jennifer explains why the start of a new year often brings clarity around relationships, outlines the key questions people should ask themselves before taking legal action, and emphasizes the importance of safety, respect, and long-term vision—especially for parents. She also introduces discernment counseling, a valuable option for couples who need clarity before deciding whether to stay married or move forward with divorce.
Known for approaching divorce differently, Jennifer reframes divorce as a transition and problem-solving process, rather than just a legal battle. She shares how intentional planning, transparency, and collaborative strategies can help families avoid unnecessary conflict—particularly when children are involved.
This interview is a must-watch for anyone in North Texas who is contemplating divorce, exploring alternatives like counseling, or looking for a Dallas divorce lawyer who prioritizes clarity, strategy, and long-term well-being.
WFAA – Good Morning Texas
Host: Erin Hunter
Guest: Jennifer Hargrave, Dallas Divorce Attorney
Erin Hunter:
Our next guest firmly believes that the new year is an opportunity to take stock of how your current life is serving you—from your hobbies, to your friendships, and even your marriage. Jennifer Hargrave is a board-certified family law attorney and the owner and managing partner of Hargrave Family Law, a Dallas-area law firm that believes in doing divorce a little bit differently.
Erin Hunter:
Good morning to you.
Jennifer Hargrave:
Good morning. I’m so glad to be here—excited to be here.
Erin Hunter:
So many of us focus on resolutions and fresh starts this time of year. What would you say to someone who is wondering if divorce might be in their future in 2026?
Jennifer Hargrave:
This is a time of year when a lot of people do deep self-reflection. You’re looking at what you want to carry forward into the new year, and sometimes that includes recognizing that a relationship just isn’t working—for a variety of reasons. That realization can be really scary, because it signals that a major life change may be coming.
Erin Hunter:
It is scary. So how do people know when to take the next step—or whether it’s time to take action at all?
Jennifer Hargrave:
The most important thing is to start by asking yourself some honest questions and really paying attention to how you feel. I always start with: Do you feel safe in your relationship? Do you feel respected? Are you excited about the future with this person—or are you not? And if you have children, another critical question is whether this relationship is setting the example you want for them.
Erin Hunter:
That’s powerful. Let me ask you this—when people come to you as a divorce attorney, do you usually recommend counseling first?
Jennifer Hargrave:
That’s a great question. Counseling can be incredibly important, and marriage counseling is especially helpful in the earlier stages of conflict. Often, by the time someone comes to my office, traditional marriage counseling may be a little late. But there’s something called discernment counseling, which I think more people should know about. It helps couples gain clarity about whether the marriage can work, whether both partners are willing to do the work, or whether it’s time to move forward separately.
Jennifer Hargrave:
We refer many families to therapy when it’s appropriate, and honestly, some of the best feedback I’ve received has been from people who later thanked me for connecting them with a great discernment counselor.
Erin Hunter:
Good on you for still encouraging therapy—even while practicing divorce law. Now, you mentioned earlier that Hargrave Family Law approaches divorce differently. What does that look like?
Jennifer Hargrave:
We start with the belief that divorce is a period of transition. It’s a problem to be solved, and if you’re open to it, it can also be a period of incredible transformation. The difference is approaching divorce with intention. Many people enter the process without thinking about the kind of divorce they want or what they want their life to look like afterward.
Jennifer Hargrave:
Divorce is inherently an adversarial legal process, and without intention, it can easily become contentious. We help people find solutions that keep them out of that space—especially when children are involved, because you’ll still be co-parenting long after the divorce is final. Our goal is to help everyone start on a level playing field, with clarity about what’s on the table, so they can move forward productively.
Erin Hunter:
That makes a lot of sense. Where can people learn more about you, discernment counseling, or the divorce process in general?
Jennifer Hargrave:
Our website, hargravefamilylaw.com/, is a great place to start—it’s full of resources. We also have a YouTube channel and podcast where I interview therapists, financial professionals, and other experts to help people understand what to expect throughout the divorce process.
Erin Hunter:
Thank you so much for being here. I really appreciate your positive, thoughtful approach—it gives people helpful guidance before they reach that final breaking point.
To reach out for a complimentary case evaluation, call 214-960-2424 or visit hargravefamilylaw.com/. We’ll be right back.
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Hargrave Family Law was founded by Dallas divorce lawyer Jennifer Hargrave with a strong mission in mind. Using non-adversarial techniques, our firm advocates for you during this challenging life transition in a way that helps you protect what matters most. Reach out to our team of compassionate Dallas divorce lawyers at Hargrave Family Law for the support you need to navigate divorce and other family law matters. We offer a complimentary case evaluation to start your journey with us. Together, we will work towards safeguarding the happiness and well-being of your family, allowing you to write your next chapter with hope.




