Summary:

In a discussion with KRLD, Jennifer Hargrave of Hargrave Family Law explained the phenomenon of “Divorce Day,” which typically falls in early January. She noted that while it’s not an official day, there is a clear uptick in divorce filings during this time, often extending through February. This trend arises as couples, after delaying action over the holiday season for practical or emotional reasons, resume normal routines and face unresolved feelings.

Jennifer emphasized that January is a practical time to begin divorce planning, particularly for those aiming to finalize transitions before summer. She highlighted that added stress varies depending on whether both spouses are aware of the impending divorce or if one spouse is still deliberating. For those uncertain about divorce, she recommended discernment counseling, a process that helps couples have constructive conversations about their relationship and decision-making. This approach can ease the divorce process if it becomes necessary.

The interview underscores the importance of thoughtful planning and open communication during such a pivotal life event.

Transcript

KRLD: Good afternoon, everyone. Before we left you on Friday, we mentioned that this past Sunday was “Dating Sunday.” Matchmakers say it’s one of the busiest days of the year for dating apps. On the flip side, today is “Divorce Day.” Jennifer Hargrave, with Hargrave Family Law here in DFW, joins us on KRLD. Jennifer, is “Divorce Day” a real thing?

Jennifer Hargrave: Yes, it is. We do see an uptick in divorces in January, and it often continues through February. It’s really more of a “divorce season.” Many people come out of the holidays feeling ready to take action. Often, they’ve seen the divorce coming for months but didn’t want to start the process during the holiday season.

There’s never a perfect time for a divorce, but there are definitely worse times—like when in-laws are staying at your house, or you’re juggling family traditions, college kids visiting, and other holiday events. Once we get back to normal routines in January, those unresolved feelings tend to resurface. This makes it a logical time to begin the divorce planning process, especially for those who want transitions finalized by summer.

KRLD: How much added stress does this bring to couples after the holidays?

Jennifer Hargrave: It depends. Does the couple both know about the divorce, or is it just one spouse? In many cases, one spouse has been sitting with these feelings for a long time, uncertain about whether they really want to proceed. Something over the holidays might solidify their decision.

If both spouses are aware, it can certainly be uncomfortable, especially if they’re living together but delaying action. For those who aren’t entirely sure, we often recommend something called discernment counseling. It’s a way to have an honest conversation with your spouse about your thoughts on divorce. Discernment counseling is designed for people still in the decision-making phase.

Even for those certain about moving forward, discernment counseling provides a healthy platform to start the conversation constructively. This can help make the divorce process smoother and less contentious.

KRLD: Thank you, Jennifer. That’s Jennifer Hargrave with Hargrave Family Law. You can find our full conversation with her at KRLD.

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